German men dating etiquette
If you want engage on a long conversation with a German, try some “heavy” topics such as politics, economy, or any subject he’s interested in.6.Germans are not easily offended As they live with a strong gender equality, it’s better for you to speak up about anything.While in some other countries politeness means showing attitude that wouldn’t hurt the other ones, Germans don’t think the same. And respect means telling the truth to somebody, rather than making up some lies to be found out later.In order to avoid hurting other people’s feeling, we often make up some “white lies” such as pretending to greet somebody excitedly when we are actually not so fond of him. When you are dating a German, don’t expect him to say only nice thing about you.Oh, and yes, women doesn’t has this privilege in public spaces – if you are the last person to board the bus, no one will offer their seat for you even if you are a pregnant women.4.Germans do not tell lie, even to their partner Every country has their own means to show “politeness”.That would be an American culture of “friendliness” who love to break the ice of awkwardness between people.As busy as Germany has always been, the people don’t spend their time for something meaningless.
All in all, different things happen for different condition.Paying the bills The gender role differences in Germany is not as strong as it is in America or Sweden.While couples in both countries tend to split the bill between themselves, German men are okay with taking all the bills. If you happen to have a conservative mind, and your boyfriend is the modern ones, he may wonder why he should take all the bills.Because of this, it’s better for you not to expect them to keep check on you every now and then just to make sure that you take your meals properly.They have their own priority such as work, rest, and some of me time! Be on time Your German boyfriend will never be understanding if you show up late for your date.
Germans rarely offended by these kind of questions, and they definitely will give you the same straightforward answer.